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I hate my ex fiancée with my entire being. We met in the Navy in January 2004. A lot of bad stuff had happened to me and at that point in my life I didn't care what happened to me, so I did what I wanted with no regard for the consequences. From the moment I met him I knew that I wanted him in my life, weather that was just a friend or if it was more, it didn't matter. I got out of the Navy in September 2004 because I was pregnant by a Dominican named Delarosa. Delarosa didn't want anything to do with my daughter... He was already married and on trial for murdering his 5 month old son. So anyway, I had my daughter in November 2004. Ney, (my now ex fiancée) and I had been calling and texting each other since I had gotten out of the Navy. Then in February 2006 he came to Ohio for his first visit. By September he proposed, and I said yes. My family loved him, my daughter called him Daddy, and I thought we were going to be together forever. I got pregnant in January 2007, we bought my grandfather's house in February, and by July he dumped me. I was seven months pregnant. Come to find out, from the time I first told him I was pregnant he had been calling my sister and telling her that he didn't think the baby was his and that I was cheating on him. He came to that conclusion because I am not 'romantic and lovey-dovey', and I didn't want to be toughed and crowded by him because I was pregnant. I have a 2.5 year old that climbs on me as well as being pregnant... I didn't need a grown man pawing me too. So now he calls me and tells me I'm white trash and has the nerve to go on about 'his son, his son' after telling me he thinks I've been cheating on him! All I can say is that... Those would be both of the father's of my children. But I get my kicks in too... The only way to annoy a Dominican male is to dig into his pockets. Well I'm due to have Ney's baby on September 21, but I've already got the paperwork for a paternity test and child support filled out so I can send it in on the next business day after having the baby. I'm also, at that time, going to do a review on Delarosa's finances and get the child support reviewed. What's sad is that they think it's all about the money. It's really not. I just want each of them to at least take notice once a month that they have another child out here, and they have a responsibility to them. Men... GRrr!
he is such a c.... its been four years. lets get married.. no where not ready.. we have problems.. no b.... you have problems. he used me. he lied he cheated he planned his life with some one else and had me support it all the way. I paid her cell phone bill and if this didn't blow up . i would have paid for her invitro. i hate him. and he like it. he wants me to hate him even more. that's the trail he leaves behind him. i don't want to be filled with hate. i try to leave him went i get to the place where i m am sorry for the loser. he wont let that be . he wants to leave me hating him. being consumed with him. no space to love me so that i can heal and eventually love someone else. i was sad, rejected, inadequate disappointed, hurt, humiliated, crushed and a whole mountain of other things.. all because this jerk didn't choose me to have his child. not a problem any more. IS he good enough to father my child? i've waited too long to become a parent a gain. my first child is 16. why should i take up a man, who has shown he can be so dirty, careless, dishonest, lousy and a mountain of other things to be in my life forever. he is a jerk. his mother supports it be she had a lousy man and she wouldn't like her son to be decent for anyone. she had a fit just to find out the bas.tard picks me up from work. she is is downfall and he will surely end up all the day of his life with her. I hope it makes both of them happy. He will never see this as the truth and this is why he is doomed. I hope my heart heals soon so i can loved him enough as a person to wish him well as he moves on.
I hate him. Why you may ask??? Well it all started about 3 months ago when we met via Myspace. He was SUPPOSEDLY dating my friend Megan so I added him and I was like 'Sorry for the random add but I guess your dating my friend and I'm sick of hearing about you every freakin day and not knowing who you are.' He denied dating her, (who wouldnt?!) and we became friends. So I started going to church with Megan and Brody goes to her church so we sat by eachother and talked and exchanged numbers. Then the thursday immediatly after I went to his church we had been texting for like 6 hours and then I said I had to go cuz I had this MAJOR Marching Band competition this next morning and he was like 'Okay but before you go I just wanna say that in one night you've made me fall for you' and since I'm no longer that freakin easily courted I told him I dont fall very easily. And he said that he does and thats it something he hates about himself. So the next day was Friday and I was in H and he was in A at a swimmeet and he asked me out so I was like okay whatever this wont turn out that bad... And we dated that weekend until he started talking about wanting to get laid and I told him no cuz I think we should be in love before we go that far and he said that he WAS in love with someone but he couldnt have her. And obviously he didnt mean me because he COULD have me, HELLO we're dating! So I was like who? And he said Kelsie who is a f...... little 8th grader and he's a JUNIOR!!! So I'm just like wtf I cant deal with this it's over. Then Christmas break from school came along... It was Christmas Eve and he out of nowhere texted me and said he was gonna kill himself so I'm like FREAKING OUT so I tell him to come over. Our parents were already asleep so we snuck out and went back to my house. We talked for like 2 hours and I comforted him then he kissed me and one thing led to another andhe got his friggin wish about getting laid. Yay him. and the day after that he went to swim camp in S until the 31st. then on like the 27th we got together and on the 29th he broke up with me cuz me and his friend Ryan dont get along. Big woop. Then like less than an hour later he was begging for me back and saying how stupid he was. Which he's not. He's amazing. WHICH IS WHY I HATE HIM!!! SO we got back together and he came over on the 1st of January and we hung out and did it again, then that wednesday he broke up with me telling me that he loved Kelsie and needed to figure some things out which was okay with me cuz Honestly I want him to be happy no matter how cliche that may sound. And then I told him that I might be pregnant not in some stupid desperate attempt to keep him but because I MIGHT BE FREAKIN PREGNANT!!! And freaked out like any guy would and came over one last time that night and we talked and weighed our options and every second were falling more and more in love with eachother. Even though I knew he loved Kelsie I still had some stupid little idea that he loved me too. then at like 2 a.m. our mutual friend Ashley texted him and said that if he snuck out he was gonna get caught because she had snuck out and her parents had called his mom to see if she was there. But his mom didnt call so maybe she didnt fimnd out that night. BUT the following day while me and brody were planning on going to the movies together his mom called mine and told her everything she had found out... from ashley. )( SO I texted Brody and got my phone taken away afterward and My mom explained to me that no he WASNT a virgin and that 3 days before he had came over for the first time he had slept with ASHLEY!!! And I was like freaking out and all three families were going to meet at his house that night. So at 7 we went and Brody's mom and dad Ashleys mom and dad and my mom were there and us three kids pretty much had to fess up to all that had happened. And that night Brody said that we were gonna remain friends but somewhere deep in my mind I was still hanging on to that little piece of hope that SOMEDAY we'd get back together. And for the next twp weeks thats the last I heard from him... or saw him for that matter. Then I went back to church this wednesday and when I tried to talk to him he pretty much blew me off and I asked if he like hated me and he said no but... and then he stopped. WTF?!?!?! SO we sat through church and the lesson was on depression which was so fitting that I was like bawling by the end of it. Then afterwards my mom his mom me and Brody stayed late and talked... if you could call it that. Brody's mom was blaming my best friend Megan for spreading around town what me and brody had done and to this day Megan still maitains that BRODY told her. But whatever.. Then his mom and my mom were talking and my mom is like what the hell he said they would remain friends and now you have him dogging my daughter?!? And brody's mom simply said 'well he's done' and my mom is like WHAT THE F...!?!?! Look at that through her eyes Brody comes over and f.... me and now he's DONE!? I cant believe that but I dont have anything to think otherwise because me and Brody havent talked so Idk if I hate him or the situation or myself... I love him and I hate him. It's like I want to throw him off a cliff and then rush to the bottom to catch him...
i hate my ex bf. when we started dating, he was the best bf that any girl, or guy could have. he was the best, until he gave me a pic of him, he had a hicky on his neck, wahwahwah. and we were dating for a whole year, and that was like the day we broke up. cuz as soon as i sa that, that was the end, so i know that he cheated on me. I HATE HIM.
I hate him because he doesn't love me. He makes me feel worthless. He won't touch me, he acts like he's disgusted with me. All he cares about is going to the gym so he can get some new tail. He is leaving and didn't even THINK about the effect this would have on his daughter. The very same daughter he pressured me to abort...God! I am so stupid for EVER falling for a guy who treats me like s... and doesn't give a s... about me. I HATE HIM!!!
So a couple of days ago, I broke up with my boyfriend because he was cheating on me, with my BEST friend! I couldn't believe him! And then, the next day at school, (in our literature class, we have to perform skits for elementary schools and I had to have the part of the two-headed flying pig, because no one had tried out for it and I didn't try out at all) he went around the whole 9th grade saying, 'Well, she's better off as a two-headed pig anyway!' and he also said, 'I dumped her! Are you kidding? Shes a faq!' So, when I went to confront him about his actions, he asked me out again! So I slapped him, and then all of the teachers rounded up all the 9th graders, so we could have a sexual harassment talk! Not just because of him and I, but because one of my enemies I guess you could call her, was making fun of someones religion. But that's not the point, they were putting our example up as the lesson. So, at that point right there, he just randomly blurted out (when no one was talking) 'Were over Madison, OVER' And over half of the 9th grade didn't even know I had broken up with him like, at that point a week earlier, so everyone started laughing at me, and all that s.... I HATE him, and ever since then, when he walks past me he says, 'Ha! I beat you to telling everyone you broke up with me first!' One time he even passed me a note during the middle of class saying that! Luckily, he wasn't caught, I'm only happy of that because he would have blamed it on me and I actually would have been the one in trouble. Like I said, I really, really, really HATE him!
I hate him for tattooing my name on his arm. I know this may seem a little crazy but I really do, It p..... me off to know that there is a sorry excuse for a man walking around with my beautiful name on his arm. My soon to be ex-husband and I were together for 4 and a half years and married for 3 weeks (Sad Huh?) I just got to the point to where I could not take it anymore the lies, the filth, everything about him was driving me INSANE!!! I used to look at him in digust like... Why did I marry you? Why was I with you for so long? I am now 25 I spent my early 20's with this a....... I could have been traveling, enjoying what the world has to offer. But Nooo I was so in love (BS). I was wasting time sitting on the couch with him at his momma's house while he played video games. I AM SOOO STUPID!! Now he wants me back. For what to talk s... to me, to tell me to cook for him, to clean up after him, to lay on my back for him? What does he want from me I practically gave him my life and I allowed him to destroy it. I REALLY REALLY HATE HIM!!!~Lovely~
Well, I met this guy on the bus and he seemed really nice and we became friends. But then he started stealing my friends away form me and purposely telling me so. I told him how I felt and he started calling me names and made me cry. I started to tell him off as well, and then our of the blue, he dares to ask for forgiveness. Of course, I said no, but as I thought about it I reAlized that I shouldn't turn down an apology, so I accepted his. It was all going well until he stated to copy me all the time, date my friends and turn them against me. I am so stressed an I HATE HIM SO MUCH!!! I WISH I COULD PAY HIM BACK SOMEHOW!!! By an angry anonymous girl
i hate that i wake up every day just to see you. i hate when i watch u ... copy you ... chose what ever you like. i hate when my heart stops every time i hear your voice. i hate that i think about you all night ... i hate that i wish i can squeeze you tight, i hate all the people that can talk to you ... laugh with you .. be with you ... and i cant. i hate that i love all the colors that you wear ... i hate when i translate every song to what i feel but i love ...
Desmond and I dated in 2001... he cheated on me with a co-worker... He was still my heart so six years later we dated again... this time things seemed to go well... he came to P to visit... then he moved to H. I set up a trip to O for us (I paid for) in February 07. I drove to see him in March 2007. I flew to visit him in May 2007. I drove to visit him in September 2007. In May 2007 he deployed until August. I sent him care packages, etc. During this entire time, if he needed anything, I got it for him... I moved to Alaska in October 2007. He then decided he did not want to stay in a long distance relationship... he also has moved on... after he told me that he loved me so... we talked about marriage and children... how the he.ll did he move on if he loved me so... Obviously he was never in love with me... He has left me heartbroken and lost!
okay, he's supposed to be my best friend. he has been for 4 years and everything was fine until he decided to start taking after my other best friend, who i have to say, is a complete B..... he copies her, he looks up to her, he does everything to try and impress her. so whenever shes around, he decides that he needs to make fun of me, he needs to be mean to me, he needs to do everything to make her laugh. it doesnt do anything to her, it actually p..... her offf. he doesnt learn. he keeps going until im in tears because of all the mean s... he says to me. i hate him so fricken much. i hate his guts. he makes me cry every single fricken day and then he tries to apologize when my other friend isnt around. it doesnt work. i seriously hate him. he's led me on, hes made fun of me behind my back, he talks s... about me to my f...... face, and hes supposed to be my best friend. I HATE HIM, omggg.
He pursued me and swept me off my feet. He wouldn’t take no for an answer. Made me dizzy with his romance and seductiveness. So charming, so handsome, so sexy. And oh my god, the physical connection. Turned my life upside down. I thought it was a once in a lifetime relationship, and he was my soul mate. Then without warning the abuse started. The controlling behavior, the jealousy, the sudden fits of rage followed by periods of abandonement and shunning. He did everything he could to get me totally in love with him and then he would act like I was a stranger. He was a Jekyll and Hyde. He’d suddenly, out of nowhere, go ballistic and leave for days, weeks, or months..One of many examples: I was in the middle of cooking dinner one evening, and he got enraged about something that a normal person would consider a minor annoyance. He stormed out the door and I did not see or hear from him for two months. He changed his.phone number and ordered me to not attempt any contact with him. If I tried to talk to him to get some kind of understanding of what was going on or to try to reason with him he would say I was stalking him and threaten to get an order of protection against me. He would lie to and manipulate his family and friends, saying I was unstable, abusive, and crazy. It would almost destroy me. Then eventually one day out of the blue he’d call. He’d say he felt 'so lost, so confused, so afraid.' He 'couldn’t help' the problems he had because he had 'PTSD from the war'. He just 'wanted to talk.' He knew exactly how to access my kind, caring nature. Then he’d use his overwhelming charm and seductiveness to slither his way back into my heart. He was 'so sorry', even though he 'couldn’t help' what he did. This cycle repeated over and over again. I was in love with him, or with the person I thought I had first met, and I was physically addicted to him. I also felt compassion for his vulnerability so I put up with his outrageous abuse. How many times can a woman be emotionally annihilated and keep standing? How long can she maintain a loving heart in the midst of such psychic violence? I can tell you, many women are capable of handling way more abuse than any man will ever have a right to get away with. And many women are capable of way more love and compassion than a lot of men deserve. And now I am just tired. I can’t cry any more. And I can’t give to him anymore. He used me up. I just want him to go away and leave me alone. I finally get it. This is more than someone who has been emotionally wounded by a war experience. He’s a taker, a selfish infantile black hole of a narcissist. If you are in love with a guy who sounds like this, get away from him somehow, end the addiction, break the spell. Fall in love with your own beauty and goodness. Honor and affirm yourself. Protect your loving and tender heart. Get away any way you can.
i hate him b.c. he is mr.perfect 4 me & since day 1 i knew that. i hate him b.c. he makes me feel so good & at the same time hate him so much. i hate him b.c. i feel like i always have to prove myself, walk on glass & drop all my problems to work on his. he is number1, a spoiled little princess & now accuses me of cheating & obscene things with other ppl. if im not with him i am at work or on my way 2 be with him. he chooses to leave and go do things (that i wont name) with his uncles & not talk to me or tell me exactly wats going on. but if i dont tell him every single minor little detail IM THE ONE WHOS WRONG !!! i hate him b.c. he is who 'i' created, which is total B.S. !!! he is who he is and how he is b.c of what he is doing that i CANT prove b.c. HE IS SUPER SNEEKY !!! . i hate him ... b.c. i love him so much that i cant be without him.
Well it started when I was 15. Im 21 now. I fell in love with the one guy in school all the girls were after. It started as a one night stand im not going to lie about that but I thought it could turn into so much more. We clashed in many ways, I smoked and he didn't, our friends didn't get along but the thing that made me think he really had feelings for me was because we put all our differences to the side so we could mess around we never got to the dating stage.(completely his fault) it was like everytime we made progress on our relationship he would somehow mess things up. This was the final time, he came back in my life about a year and a half ago and told me all this crap about him changing and blah blah blah, u know the usual bs and I believed it. Then I come to find out he has a girl this whole time and she wants to verbally attack me for and make me look like a hoe to all his friends. This is the bastard I loved for 7 yrs. I really really really really rrreeeaaalllyyy HATE HIM! Thank u for letting me express myself!-- Sent From The One All You B...... Hate On!
I hate him because he has lied about too many things to count. I hate him because he convinced me to move to his state. I did not want to move but he insisted and insisted. I finally changed my entire life for him, moved to another state for him then 3 months later he f.... a nurse from his job and it's over just like that! After only 3 months. After I changed my entire existence for him, he cheats on me and I kick him out and it's over. I hate him because of this. And now I am having to pay $4000 in taxes in this new state and I blame this on him too. I would never be living in this state paying $4000 out of my pocket if it wasn't for him!!! I hate him because on our first date he told me that he had broken up with his last girlfriend 3 years prior to our first date and then 9 months later I find out he had never broken up with her at all and he continued to see the both of us at the same time for the entire first 9 months of our relationship!!! I hate him because he would never tell me where he lived. He moved 3 times and lied to me each time, pretending to still live at the previous address. I found out his new addresses in accidental ways. But this last time I drove to his old address and looked through the window and saw it empty. And I couldn't believe that he had done it this time AGAIN. MOVED AGAIN. LIED about it AGAIN. But most of all I hate him because after all these lies and so many more I have not written, he still INSISTS that he has never lied to me!!! WTF???
I hate him because he sold his soul to his devil hoe of a girlfriend so he could be at the Master's golf tournement right now and will probably get away with it even though he is supposed to be in court for physically assaulting me while we were at a couple's therapy appointment. Yes, it is true. He might as well have attacked me on the steps of the county courthouse. He isn't too bright. And we have 2 beautiful children too that he hasn't made one tiny effort to try to see or contact my mail or anything since the end of February and he's been telling everyone that I won't let him see his children which is yet another LIE. Ladies, if a man seems too good to be true, too charming, too passionate in bed, sweeps you off your feet, makes promises to be there 'forever', cries at the thought of losing you, tells you that you are the 'only one for him', etc., guess what? You are in for a HARD fall...At least, I was and am still falling. The children shrug now when I ask if they miss Daddy. They say he never tried to see them that much anyway so it doesn't really matter to them. Why are my children stronger than I am? Why do I still have these feelings for him even after everything he put us through? I hate him and I hate her for stabbing another woman and 2 innocent small children square in the back. A woman that steals another woman's man is in the top 10 of lowest life forms possible including child molesters and murderers.
me and my boyfriend have been dating a month and i thought everything was great until about to days ago i was sick and didnt go to school. the next day at school i had a bunch of people comin up to me like chandler has been all over meredith all day and they have been huggin and walkin to class together and they kissed after school. i asked him about it and he said that they were all liein that he loved me with all his heart and wouldnt do that to me. so i believed him. then the next day he had a track meet and meredith runs track but i dont and meredith called me and was like are you datin chandler and i was like yea why and then she was like um he said yall werent datin that he hated you and i was like let me talk to him and so she let me and i was like so we arent datin and he was like no B.... we never were you needa stop liein and then he hung up. and we havent talked since. darn i hate that i love him.
I hate my ex-boyfriend so much... for the things he has done to me and my kids...We met on Blackplanet.com. and all of an suddenly the day we started chatting. He asked me if we could go together as a couple. I was like sure. I was attracted to him. He send me flowers and won me over. Than like 2 weeks later he proposed to me. I was like oh my god. I thought I had the one. And like a month later he found out he was going to have to ship out to Iraq. But they send him to Texas for training. He was supposed to be in Texas for a month and half. But they kept him there much longer than a month. They kept him there for a total of 5 months. I don't know if he is really supposed to be in Iraq or if he just played with my heart and didn't really want me to know he's probably stationed in Texas. But anyways, one day he started not to answer his phone. I find it odd cuz he would always pick up for me. So what I did was go visit his blackplanet page. Suprisely it wasn't something I wanted to see. He started claiming he's single in Texas while he's with me. He and I had some pics taken before he left Washington. All of an suddenly he cut out my face on our favorite pic. And put it up on blackplanet, saying he single. I was like what in the world. And when I questioned him about it, he dumped me in a heartbeat. I was hurt. I hate him so much cuz he's so deseperate for love. He had love and he just threw it away. He put up on his page, it hurts to love and not be loved in return. He don't know what love is. Cuz he has never expierenced love. I was the only one who has ever loved him. I broke down the wall, he used to be scared to fall in love and I did just that, I made him cry tears of joy. But wow I can't believe he did me like this. I hope that bastard gets what's coming to him. Cuz Karma is a b..... I hate him for dropping this rental computer on me. He promised me and my mom he was going to continue to pay for it while we not together. He knew I couldn't handle another bill, cuz it would leave me struggling. But he didn't care. He screwed up my life. I just hate him. And I don't care what happen to him in Iraq, because whatever happens in Iraq he deserves. Cuz he's a cold hearted bastard whose looking to play with women's hearts and kids hearts.
Hey I hate Him.com! There was this guy, who had been my friend for 6 years (I am fifteen). I have learned to gradually like him, then love him. Yes, I can now say I love him. He's on my mind every single day, but I know he doesn't care about me at all... Here's my story: When I was in seventh grade, and he in ninth, he would often hold my hand and talk to me in that soothing, caring way. We talked on the balcony of my apartment during the night, and it seemed like he liked me. Even on MSN he told me to keep our messages secret, so that our parents don't know. On MSN, his tone was like that of a boy speaking to his girlfriend. That was three years ago. A year ago, he told me, on MSN, that he had a girlfriend whom he had hidden from his parents (he was in eleventh grade). Yes - you might be thinking - heartbreak? Yes. Heartbreak. At least, you might think, he told me of this relationship. Okay - I can say, pretty sure, that he DIDN'T like me then, right? Well, a few months ago, we went on a cruise (our families) and he met this ninth grader (I was in tenth). Guess what? During that 1-week cruise, he took this new girl as his makeshift girlfriend and told her 'I love you' and stuff to her, while hiding all of this from his real girlfriend. Worse yet, he DID ALL OF THIS IN FRONT OF ME. Yes, he kissed her, and he even took a 3-hour walk with her on the top deck at 2am in the morning on the last day of the cruise. [what really bothered me was that, he and I were playing a card game at 2am when the girl walked in and told him she wanted a drink. They NEVER came back - I waited for 1.5 hours. Found out later that they were taking their time on the top deck]. We left the cruise the next day, and I didn't see him. Okay - you can say he seriously broke my heart there, and he didn't like me, right? Okay - he told me he was sorry, on MSN, and we were 'friends' (I was still angry, though). The week after the cruise, I decided to call him (he just gave me his cell phone number a few days after the cruise ended - couldn't he have given it to me sooner? He is, after all, an eleventh grader.). I tried 6 times (yes, it's stupid, but I was desperately lonely and confused) to call him, and on the 7th try, he answered. No, not he - his girlfriend answered. I talked to him for 2 seconds, and ended the call. Then, he told me, via MSN again, that his girlfriend was angry at him because I called him 7 times. Okay - there's something wrong with this. If he knew I called him 6 times, and he didn't have call display, then it must have been that HE DELIBERATELY MISSED MY CALLS, ON PURPOSE. His girlfriend was angry because she thought he and I were having a relationship (ironic, eh?). Well, he told me that we didn't, 'right?' he asked. Major heartbreak. So, I blocked his MSN, deleted his email, and totally stopped contact with him. Recently, however, I started thinking of him again, and added him to MSN again. Okay - for barely a second he was online, and then POOF, he was gone. He probably blocked me - either him or his girlfriend. Now, after I took the trouble to add him to MSN again, and tried to be understanding when he broke my heart, HE FRIGGIN BLOCKED ME. Now, I just hate him. I hate him!!! I HATE HIM! Somehow, I still love him. I wish I don't, though. I wish to break his heart as well. I wish. Was he really ignorant of my feelings, or was he just extremely insensitive? Either way, I hate him. He isn't blind. I think he was doing all this on purpose. Pure Evil.
I hate that I fell in love with him. I hate that I need him more than I want him. We are nothing alike, everything is the opposite with us. Every day life is difficult, yet I'm so afraid to be alone, that I stay with him. He's a jerk to people overall, but not to me. He's actually a pretty great guy, he definately takes care of me. He in fact spoils me, and I know he loves me. I think he knows were not a good match too, and I think one day we'll break up. I hate that I'm wearing this engagement ring when I don't think it won't work in the long run, and we'll become another statistic. I hate that I told him if he didn't propose, it was over. He suprised me with a cruise to mexico, and a beautiful proposal over the pacific ocean. I hate that I sound so unappreciative in this letter. I hate that neither of us have the courage to let go.
I hate him because he was the one who made contact first, was the one who suggested it become romantic, and convinced me that long distance could work, even though I resisted for a long time. I hate him because he made me think he was different that everyone else. I hate him because he made me trust him after I had been single for over 10 years. And now, he has cut off all communication. He's dropped of the face of the earth. Just when I thought I was maybe ready to try again, he's made me think that I was right for not letting anyone in. I hate him because he's made me feel embarassed and a fool.
This is my story. I knew this guy in one of my elementry school years,and everyone thought we were PERFECT for each other,so we went out for 2 months and on Field Day,my best friend told me to hug him,so she pushed me,and I landed on his foot,and he got really mad so he dumped me!!! I was depressed for like a day,and when I went swinging the next day,he kneeled down in front of me, and said 'I know you dont think I'm your knight in shining armor,but I still love you. Will you be my girlfriend?' And I was so mad,i jumped off the swing,smacked him while saying,'JERK!' Now everyday he sees me askes 'Am I big jerk now?' I told you I hate him!!!
I HATE HIM!!! he is always so good to me and caring and so attentive when we are together... he is the only guy I have felt anything for in such a long time!! when we are together we laugh and fool around and are ourselves... but when we are not it seems like we are both playing the aloof game... wanting the other to make the effort.. but it always ends up being me... well lately, anyways.. this has been going on now for almost 2 years... and it has gone absolutely NO WHERE. so why do I sit at home so much wondering if he will contact me for a random drunken hook-up? and why do I even CARE!?!? WOW the more I write the more I wonder... it is just the sex I like... not him. I am sure, somewhere out there a guy will take me the way he does... mmm... and still want me around the next day... I hate him for treating me good. I hate him for treating me badly. I hate him for being my ex's best friend, and I hate him for using that as an excuse. Which really isn't an excuse at all is it? it’s a gentle rejection. So why don’t I see it... and why don’t I use that as an excuse to just turn my head the other way...
Well I'm a new bride. I'm 19 and I think it was a mistake to get married.My hubby is controlling he never listens to me. He tells me what i have to say dont intrest him so most of the time we dont talk. He don't trust me at all most of my friends Drink and do other things he dont approve of. so when i tell him im hanging with my friends he throws it up to me that im just hanging out with them so i can get drunk or high. thats not the reason. he has hit me before but i can't leave him i do love him to an extent but i feel so alone in this relationship. I think i made a mistake. His family really dont approve of me any way. My family loves him to death but they dont see how sad and hurt I really am. I told him before we got married that i loved him and promised him my heart but is it possible to give some one your heart that loves some one else.My heart longs for my ex (he died) and i have a prom picture up above mine and my hubbys bed of me and my ex. my hubby throws up to me if he was still alive you would be cheating on me with him because your just like your mother a f...... hoe. I cry at night because he dont make me feel loved and i just want love and commpassion. I guess all guys really are the same. I can't get a divorce because my family/ religion don't believe in divorces. So am I really stuck with this forever. I fell like im being used and I don't like it. We have no S.. life at all and he thinks im cheating on him how can I make him see he is the only oneI -want? I ment what i said when I said my vows. I love him but can't take no more!KYRA
I went out with him because he treated me like crap! I love guys who treat me like crap, and crap in my hair. Now he's all nice to me! i Dont want him to be nice to me! i hate him! I mega super hate him! AHHH. i hate him.... and i hate you!
>We aim to please. -John
i have known this guy since i was born, we've been really good friends and have always had that little flirty thing going on. Our parents know each other from work and we barley get to see each other because we dont live in the same state. I see him maybe 5 to 10 times out of a year. We recently started talking on the phone everyday. We both told each other that we have liked each other for a long time. Then I told him that I was in love with him, because it was true. I recently saw him about two weeks ago and we kissed.. about 10 times in 2 hours, and we made out like 10 times also. It was a little awkward just because we've been frineds forever. After that happened, I felt like it didnt mean anything to him. But is was my first kiss, so of course it meant something to me. He is a very big flirt and whenever he talks to my frineds on the phone, he turns on his charm. Yesterday my friend came over and we decided to call him. The guy I hate was with his cousin, and it turns out his cousin is a perve. When we were talking to him, (not his cousin), he was acting really weird. Like he was drunk or high, or something, but he wasn't himself. He kept asking us to 'sex flirt' with him and his cousin. But I didnt realy want to. But I could tell that the guy that I hate was into my friend. This time I knew i could get my friend to get inside the guy i hate's mind. So i asked her to tell him i went down stairs so it would just be my friend and the guy i hate on the phone, when really I was listening the whole time. When I was 'downstairs' he asked her to 'sex flirt' with him, but then she was like... 'what about her, your friend you've know forever? Didnt you guys make out? Don't you think she'll care if i flirt with you?' and he said...'well,, we dont have to tell her' i swear,, he's dead to me. I hope he didnt like that kiss, because i will make suree,, That will never happen again. (333 sarraahhh... (333 i hate you SCOTT. have fun with SHELBY. she hates you too,, so i dont think you'll be getting much from her. too bad your too much of a D...... to figure that out. you know what... i think i'll go for your cousin,, :))) he's hotter anyway. (33 sarah,, with alll mmyyy HEART. darn,, you dont have that anymore either, so why dont you go back to your girlfriend, WHILE YOU HAVE HER. dont worry,, i'll fwd this to her too!
I hate my husband because when our 2 daughters were 5 & 6 yrs. old, we were walking down a gravel road going from his sisters house to his dads house and a pack of wild dogs came running at us from behind, my husband took off running ahead of us, and I grabbed my daughters by their hands and took off running with them as my BRAVE husband yelled out really loud, every man for themselves! luckily the dogs ran right past us and didnt bother anyone. I also realized that day that I was married to a mousey wimp of a man! I hate him because he has came home and said that he is tired of coming home having to look at me. he has said that he dont know why he works everyday to make money to take care of me! I hate him because he slept with his step sister,her dad didnt care. I hate him because he expects me to be his maid constantly, he will leave the same pair of dirty socks in the middle of the living room floor for a week at a time, he expects me to pick up after him all the time, his hands and legs arent broken or anything! not yet anyway! I hate him because he yells at me in front of our daughters, (they are 29 & 30 now), he yells at me in front of his buddies when they come to visit. I hate him because he wont fix my bathroom floor that fell in 3 years ago! and half of the side of our home is actually falling apart, the edge hang down from the roof, and he wont fix that either! I hate him because he brought 3 poodles home 3 months apart and after having them for 12 years he says, he didnt know he had to revolve his life around the dogs because they want him to take them out to potty! I love them and take them outside without a thought about it! I thought when you got pets that you were supposed to revolve your life around them and thats why you bought them! I hate him because he exaggerates the story really huge on everything, like for example,, we will be arguing one day and he will yell and say that I argue with him EVERY DAY! I dont! Or if I make just sandwiches one day for supper he will say that he is sick of eating sandwiches EVERY DAY! Or if I pause the tv to answer the phone and he happens to come in while it is paused he will say that he is sick of coming home EVERY DAY and the tv being on pause (tivo), it`s not! Or if I tell him that there was a problem with the computer he will say that something is wrong EVERYDAY with the computer! its not! I hate him because I have caught him in sooo many lies its not even funny, and when I do confront him on a lie he will accuse me of this and that, I am a homebody and dont do anything wrong! I hate him because he not only lies to me constantly but he also lies to our daughters and he tries to turn them against me by saying how bad I treat him! how dare him! I hate him because he has never stood up for me on anything! NOTHING! men can say things to me out of the way or put there hands on me and he just says that i can take care of myself cause im a big girl now and then he laughs it off! what a CREEP!! he made me sell my cadillac because he said the motor was going out of it, the person I sold it to drove it without a problem for 2 years, husband just wanted to get the money and blow it on him and his uncle! JERKS! after 6 years I still do not have a car, but he sure does have his pick up truck! We argued over one of his lies one time and he took the money out of our joint account and started a new account in with his uncle! part of the money was from my mothers inheritance! DWEEB! I hate him because he asks me how to spell the word - the-. I hate him because he is gross, if he is going to the kitchen I will tell him to wash his hands before he starts digging in food and he will say my hands are clean, I havent been working on anything, well what about bathroom breaks, nose picking, a.. picking, ball scratching, doesnt those deserve a hand washing too!!! FREAK!!I hate him because he wont take me to certain retaurants to eat, cause he says he dont want to go inside and eat, but yet he and his uncle have hit every restaurant in town together!! JACKAL!!! I hate him because he thinks all teenage girls are HOT! HE IS 49 YRS OLD FOR GOD`S SAKE!!! I have told him to move out as he has a job and a vehicle, I dont, but he wont move he says this is his house too!! He said if he moves that all I will get is this raggedy ass trailor and nothing inside of it!! most of everything in our home belongs to me, that I purchased or was given to!! I ABSOLUETLY HATE MY HUSBAND WITH A PURPLE PASSION! I have fixed him supper before and put spit and cigarette ashes and stomped his pork chops on the floor then cooked them up for just him specially and after he finished eating he told me that i outdone myself on supper!! I thought wonderful! and told him -why thank you very much!!! he just makes me sooo mad that I have gotten revenge in these little ways. well now as much as I hate the thought of it, I guess its time to get off the computer and go in the living room and look at his FACE!!! have you ever seen the painting of- SCREAM-!!!
Well I met him of RSVP singles site, he seemed so nice first time I met him, we started dating a few weeks after we met he had a four month old daughter who he had a few days a week & I had a son so thought it would be ok. We moved quickly into things (mostly cos he was being kicked out) . It took me a while to find somewhere he wanted to go near his mothers but I didn't want to go so far. So I found somewhere, I paid for bond and first months rent, then purchased all furniture and before he moved paid to get his car fixed and 2weeks rent at his other house as he didn't have any money. Things were fine when we moved in although he was rarely ever around due to work night shift and band practise and gym with a mate. Fair enough I put up with it because that was his lifestyle and I loved him. I found it really hard as he had his daughter 2 nights a week who didn't sleep but cried a lot and was pretty demanding even he said she was a nightmare! So life was hard but I stuck around thinking things would be ok. Thursday morning few days after I paid the next months rent,he left like normal and came home in a bad mood no hello as he always did and went to cleaned his car, had shave, took his baby seat out then took off. Wouldn't talk to me when he got home apparently he was tired so I left him. Next morning no goodbye, he had a concert that night for his band and I was meant to go little did I know the real reason! He didn't come home and came back a few days later and said 'its over I cant do this anymore' of course I was upset and tried not to cry he didn't care he smiled when he said it I know that he wouldn't do it unless there was someone else around his not the type of guy that likes to be alone. So of course I had to ring the real estate and tell them we had to move. Real estate wasn't happy as we had only moved in a month ago so costed abit to break lease and continue paying for rent until someone else moved in. He never said goodbye to my son who is 4, just took off like a coward. I moved back to move parents as it I wasn't coping and was on anti depressants and seeing counseling thinking I had the problem clearly he was the problem. A lot of my mates said his gay he never slept with u and I sort of agreed for a while. I would have understood if he was and still would have wanted to be mates. Cail moved to his mums so he could save money, he owed me money for rent and bills so we made a contract for him to pay monthly amounts, because I loved him I let him choose the amount he would pay. He couldn't pay for a month no idea why so I agreed being nice, not once did he stick to the contract I continually had to ask for money and he always abused me. The he gave me my phone and to no surprise at all there was a message on the phone he wrote to his manager of his band very professional NOT!!! (This was the Friday night he didn't want me to go I know why now) IN his message it wrote ' It was great seeing u cant wait to see u again xoxo love cail. I rang him and abused him as I was so upset apparently it was none of my business even though we were still together I cried to my sister in law and she rang a solicitor about the fact he never kept to the contract in paying for rent. The solicitor called him and told him she would send the sheriff over to his house and he would never get a loan ever in his life. He paid me all the money, (of course he had it he never paid for rent, bills or food I did) I spoke to him on the phone and apparently I ruined his life . We got rid of the house after several weeks and he wanted nothing to do with me. It his dream to become a big rockstar hopefully he doesn't as he doesn't deserve it plus I know a few people in the music business who will spread the word. I hate him so much as I know he never cared bout me or my son.
I hate him because he never loved me and I loved him so much. I hate that fact that I gave him everything I could. I hate that he never realized how good I was to him. I hate him most of all for demanding my two abertions. I hate him for making it hard to start a new relationship with someone new. I hate that I will never forget him!
okay, so there is this guy. and i kinda fell in love with him, but that was about 7 months ago. we went out for almost 4 months until he unexpectidly broke up with me. we got back together the next day, after i cried all day and night. but then the next day, he broke up with me again? okay, so i was really mad and stuff because he started going out with this other girl for about a month. then they broke up, and we started going out again. we went out for a couple weeks, and then he said that he 'had' to brake up with me, because his grandma made him, so he says. well yeah, so i hate him alot now. i am best friends with my ex-boyfriends friend, and he tells me everything. and his friend even told me that he didn't have to brake up with me. how bad do you think i feel? I HATE HIM! ughhh. and guess what? he goes out with my best friend now! wow, what a life i have, huh?
theres this gut who works in our local bookstore,he's such a p.....Im a lisbian and i have a bit of a crush on his wife,its not like i would ever do anything about it (neither would she). I get a little bit shy around her,i tend too talk a bit too much, you know,babble a bit,i cant help it im a shy person,and have only recently come out after keeping it a secret for 3 years.I have overheard him making fun of me calling me pathetic,deluded,ridiculous and hideous .But whenever i go in there he is as nice as pie (no pun intended!) to me and stands there with this arrogant smug look on his giant ugly moon face! Its not like i love his wife or anything,i just think she is pretty,i cant help who i find attractive,im nothing but nice to him and i dont deserve to be treated like this.I know its a trivial matter and i should just let it go but it really burns me up about how nice this guy is to my face when i know he has said all of these things behind my back just because i think his wife is pretty,he should take it as a compliment,he is batting way above his average,the bald headed big eared leather faced mother f.....
i hate him. so heres the story:: i broke up with him. he was mad.sad.and brokenhearted. i was the same but i missed him to much to go out with him anymore. he told me that he wished i died and he made me so mad. then come to find out, he likes mi best friend chloe. i almost died..i cried for about 30 minutes then i couldnt breathe. i ate and then felt a bit better but still hate him.
I hate him. i hate his smile. i hate his way to be totally annoying but lovable at the same time. i hate his hair. i hate his shoes. i hate his chlothes i hate everything about him. i also hate the way i love him so much:(
I hate that I hate him but still love him. Why hes a duck!!! He thinks women are here to service him. I can’t for life of me figure out WHY I am even in love with this selfish man and to believe in his lies. He is a mental abuser and gets a thrill out of destroying women. He needs to get over himself. I want him to get what’s coming to him as they say what comes around goes around this is one man that sooo deserves that. He’s a duck and what kills me is when he walks into the bar we hang out at when they call him CAPTAIN DUCK HEAD, it’s the name that I gave him and the d...... think they like him, but s... they all talk behind his back, cuz of the s... that he pulls on me. This man that thinks he this up standing guy even bought me a ring wanted to get married and has done nothing but lie, cheat (my daughter has caught him) and do anything to destroy me and my children, has even left us homeless, cuz I was an idiot to give my home up, because we built one together now we have no place to go, and no money. And he can’t even look me in the eyes to tell me anything-- he has to do it by EMAIL while im at work, I work in the Medical field mind you, what a snake, looser, duckhead. He doesn’t have a clue what a real man is... To Todd your are truly an inconsiderate duck head. Good luck to you what comes around goes around they call it KARMA. LOOSER. Good luck to the women that believes in this man.
i hate him with all my life!!!..i thought that he was not like my ex who has 5 grils in his life!!!..he was still waiting for his ex girlfriend and he was just using me to tell everyone that he has a grilfriend and to make his ex jealous!!i really really really hate him!!HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HIM SOOO MUCH!!!
so, a couple of months ago, i fell for this guy, so it was around his birthday and he didnt know much about me. He's a year older but we have some of our classes together. so on his birthday I send him a text saying happy birthday, and after that we became friends. About a week later, he told me that he liked me. but it wasnt until a month later till we decided to become boyfriend/girlfriend. At our school carnival, he asked me to go on the ferris wheel with him and stuff like that. Then about 2 weeks later, he dumped me saying that he wasnt ready to be in a relationship right now. I asked him why, and he just said that he never even liked me and admitted that he was using me. OMG!!! Using me?! we barely even talked in person! he said we can still be friends but hes just ingoring me. there was nothing to use, anyways! URRRGGGHHH!!!
I hate you so much it physically hurts to think about it. You told me I was beautiful, and you'd never let me go. Then you hit me and told me you were the only one who'd ever love me back. You said it was my fault, that I brought it out of you. If I weren't so difficult all the time, you wouldn't be that way. I hate that you went insane, or something like it. You pulled my hair and said you liked the way I screamed. You told me the only thing I was good for was a quick f..., and when I said I wasn't ready, you took it anyways. You didn't think of it as rape. You said I wasn't good enough. You said I was gorgeous, but silly and stupid, and that if I left you I would only get the same reaction from anyone else. I hate everything you drilled into my head, and I hate everything you ever told me. But most of all, I hate that I still believe it.
I hate him because he was my best friend for three years, and I found out he was trying to have 'benefits' the entire time. He used to tell me he loved me, and would be all over me. When I told him I was interested, he told me he would never be in a relationship with me and that he couldn't date anyone at this point in his life...but he liked me. A few weeks later he moved in with this girl and started dating her. He continued to hit on me while living with her, and saying he'd still hook up, saying she was just his 'something on the side'. He led me to believe he wanted something more serious, when in reality he was willing to ruin the friendship just to hook up. He should have just dropped everything and been there as a FRIEND. I hate him because he kept me at bay for years, told me he loved me, and said we were 'best friends' when he really disrespected not only the friendship, but me as a woman.
He told me he loved me then slept with my bestfriend then finding out she was pregnant. Then we find out its not his I take him back and forgive him and then he dumps me for her..now he saying he's sorry and he wants me back... Jessica
i hate him because I have a beautiful 11month old daughter to HIM at 19yrs old. YES YOUNG AND STUPID I ruined my life i ruined my body i ruined the chances of me travelling and having a career. I love my little girl but I HATE HIM
So a couple of days ago, I broke up with my boyfriend because he was cheating on me, with my BEST friend! I couldn't believe him! And then, the next day at school, (in our literature class, we have to perform skits for elementary schools and I had to have the part of the two-headed flying pig, because no one had tried out for it and I didn't try out at all) he went around the whole 9th grade saying, 'Well, she's better off as a two-headed pig anyway!' and he also said, 'I dumped her! Are you kidding? Shes a faq!' So, when I went to confront him about his actions, he asked me out again! So I slapped him, and then all of the teachers rounded up all the 9th graders, so we could have a sexual harassment talk! Not just because of him and I, but because one of my enemies I guess you could call her, was making fun of someones religion. But that's not the point, they were putting our example up as the lesson. So, at that point right there, he just randomly blurted out (when no one was talking) 'Were over Madison, OVER' And over half of the 9th grade didn't even know I had broken up with him like, at that point a week earlier, so everyone started laughing at me, and all that s.... I HATE him, and ever since then, when he walks past me he says, 'Ha! I beat you to telling everyone you broke up with me first!' One time he even passed me a note during the middle of class saying that! Luckily, he wasn't caught, I'm only happy of that because he would have blamed it on me and I actually would have been the one in trouble. Like I said, I really, really, really HATE him!
I hate him because he doesn't love me. He makes me feel worthless. He won't touch me, he acts like he's disgusted with me. All he cares about is going to the gym so he can get some new tail. He is leaving and didn't even THINK about the effect this would have on his daughter. The very same daughter he pressured me to abort...God! I am so stupid for EVER falling for a guy who treats me like s... and doesn't give a s... about me. I HATE HIM!!!
I mega super hate him! I'M 21 ...I met this guy who was like my prince he's 22, the kind of guy I was always looking for. We met almost 3 years ago. We started out as friends, he use to tell me every single thing that he was going trough. I remember that when we met he was dating with this girl.. anyways they broke up and 2 months after that, our friendship made a big step to a relationship as boyfriend/girlfriend. I was so happy with this relationship because we used to get along very well , we were just like the 'perfect couple' Relationships have ups and downs..so we got into a big argument because he thought i was cheating on him, which IT WAS ALL LIES ! so he found out it was all gossips so everything was great again. He used to tell me every single day how much he 'loved' me and how much he cared for me and specially tell me ' I WILL NEVER CHEAT ON YOU' saying that he was loyal , the perfect boyfriend that would never make any harm to me and bla bla bla... Suddenly i started to have these weird feeling about him...like if something was pushing me away from him. He realized that i was kind of cold to him and was always thinking and quiet... So one night i decided to tell him that i had a feeling inside me ,about him cheating on me. He became balistic and so angry at me because he was saying that i had no respect for him and i didnt trust him at all... I felt bad because maybe it was just my imagination... time went by and God ! I went in his text messages and found out that it was 2 months that he had been talking to this 32 years old woman and IM SO UPSET ! I HATE HIM WITH ALL MY INNER SELF , MY HEART AND MY SOUL!! because even though i asked him to tell me the truth he denied it !!! He even swear on god that it was not true... after a week , he accepted that he was guilty and he was actually seeing these woman and now... he is dying for my forgiveness but...all i feel about him is shame and grosseness... OH GOD ! I REALLY HATE HIM! ...PLUS !!! because.. he had this 'best friend' which was a girl and i saw a text where he was telling her that she was the greatest thing that ever had happen to him..!! I HATE HIM !!! I FEEL LIKE STUPID . Maribel
I hate that I love you. I hate that I even know you.. I hate that you love her and I hate that you are blind to see the truth. I hate that I can't just tell you how I feel. I hate that I can't tell you how I feel because I already know the outcome. I hate the way you talk to me. I hate the way your oblivious to just about everything. I hate that I can read you like a book. And I hate that the lines I'm reading are just as beautiful as they look. I hate that you can't see that she's a hoe. I hate that you leave me at night with only you to think about. I really hate it when you go. I hate that I love you. I hate the way you say 'whatever' when I say something silly. I hate that I've given my everything to you. I hate the way you look at her, but you see right through me. I hate that you think you are in love and I hate that you call me funny and that's all you see. I hate the way you flick your hair, right off your eyes. I hate that you ask me for advice on other girls, not me. I hate that you don't love me. I hate that at 11:11, you're all I can think to wish for. I hate that I love you. I do, I do, I do. I hate how hard I'm falling, I hate that I can't get back up on my own. I hate that I need you to catch me, I hate it. But most of all, I hate that I love you like I do.
I hate him because he played me like a fool. I was head over heels in love with him and everyone who worked with us know, but he pretended like he didn't. Right before he left our firm, it took everything in me to find the courage to tell him how I felt. He acted surprised and said he wanted to talk about it when he gets back (he wanted to travel for a while). I tried sending him emails and he never responded. Then I found out that he was actually dating someone else (she works in the same office!) before he left. He never told me. He tried to act like such a nice and considerate person, but he all he did was giving me false hope because he wasn't man enough to tell me that he was with someone else. I am such a fool in so many ways, and it is going to take a while before I am able to trust again.
Okay the reason why i hate him is becaue he knows just how to tick me off... i tell him not to do something and he does it! why would you do that??? but yet everytime i try to break it off he wont let me or something stupid like that... but he wants to keep us together. wtf. why??? if you want to be happy you should make your companion happy so you dont end up hating eachother. ughhh im so tired of him i could cry.
I hate him because is chose his drug over me. He was my drug. I hate you, but please come back.
Lets start at the beginning. I very recently got divorced from an abusive a...... and have two kids from the marriage whom I absolutely adore. For the first time in my life I was independent and did not need anyone and did not feel like I needed anyone. One night about a month after my divorce, I went to hang out with some old friends and go bar hopping. Through out the night I felt myself falling for 'Cory'. He seemed to be liking me as well. We got together that night and from then on it was a whirl wind romance. In three very short weeks, he told me he loved me and that he had never been with anyone like me in his life and had never felt this way before. He told me that he wanted to move in with me, that he loved my kids, and loved how I was with his kid. He told me that he thought that us hanging out that night in the first time in forever and being together now was fate. He told me that he never wanted to be with anyone else in his whole entire life, just me. That he wanted to grow old with me and retire with me and build a house with me. He told me he wanted to marry me. Not only marry me, but where and how and who would be there. He told me that he would never hurt me and would always be there for me and always make me happy. He promised me all these things. I did not initiate this stuff at all. I just sat back and listened. He eventually swept me off my feet and I thought that for the first time in my life, I had actually found someone who would really make me happy. I thought this was really it. I finally found someone who can treat me the way I deserve to be treated. Then, out of nowhere, last night, his x-girlfriend of about a year, who is completely ugly and a total drug addict, who does nothing but use him and verbally abuse him, showed up at his door last night while I was there making him dinner. He went outside and talked to her for about 30 minutes, came back in and asked to talk to me. I knew right then that I had been used. He was very upset and I asked him what was wrong. He said that he and his x-girlfriend were going to try and work things out. The exact thing he promised me would never happen. I just sat there in complete shock that I had fallen for his bull crap. He started crying and telling me how sorry he was and that everything he said he truly meant. I would have been totally fine just doing it a couple of times and moving on with me life, he did not have to go as far as saying all those things! Whatever…..I hate men, they are nothing but back stabbing dogs. Why can't there just be one nice, attractive, rich, adoring man out there for me. I am successful and a total bomb shell and absolutely awesome…..what the hell? Elyse
I hate him, but of course I hate myself more for being with him. We started dating eight years ago. From the third month it turned into a very physially abusive relationship. I had a daughter when we met who was three months old. Our first daughter was born 18 months into our relationship. She was born quite underweight and with other difficulties from what the doctor said was stress from the abuse while I was pregnant. Our second and third daughters were born two and four years later (all four girls are 2 yrs apart). He has left many many times over the years; I have made him leave 3 times. I took our children and lived in domestic violence shelters 4 times; the last time he went to prison for a year charged with assault and battery on me. Every time I told myself that I would never take him back or talk to him, ask him to come back et cetera no matter how much I wanted him; and everytime he would ask me back of his own volition. Of course being weak and not wanting to be poor, homeless or have the children without a father I would go back. So after eight years we get married three months ago (Oct 31, 2007). Now we are seperated and getting a divorce. The whole last year he has been out of prison things have been perfect; we get married and it all goes out the window. No physical abuse, but close. Mainly emotional abuse that I just can't put up with the rest of my life. I hate him. He has taken all my self esteem, my dignity and my trust. I hate myself, life and everyone in it. And he doesn't even care.
I hate him. This is what happened. We went out for like a few weeks last year. He was my first. I thought I relaly liked him. But then after we broke up I started sleeping with a lot of other guys so pretty much during that time I've forgotten about him. And then just this Christmas he came to me with all these presents knowing I was going to be alone, or be with my roommate. He was so sweet he even bought my roommate birthday present. We started sleeping together again. Without really calling each other boyfriend or girlfriend, but I realy thoght that was what our relationship was. I don't have to be his girlfriend or him to be my boyfriend. I just wanted to know that there was someone that I could fall back on when things went wrong on my side. He always seemed to be the one for me really because I'm always the one talking and he's the one listening. I'm always bossy around him I think that's one thing that drives him nuts. I'm bossy in bed and out of bed. He freaking hates it when I boss him around but he obeys anyway. Sex with him is always great. He knows how to make me come of course though with the use of some tool. That's what I miss the most. Then one time, after sleeping with each other for a little while, I asked him if he wanted to be together and he told me something about how he doesnt like female because women are needy and how I will hinder him at work and stuff like that. I raelly thought he was so dumb he doesnt want to feel anything. He said he wanted to be a man and a man doesn't need anyone. What a liar. Because later, in January, he called me one day to tell me he doesnt want to feel attached to anybody. Again, liar. Then he started saying something like, 'you know I have other girls that liked me too. But I didn't choose anyone. because I don't want to be with anyone.' so I was like, 'so you seeing someone now? or f...... anyone?' And he was lke, 'no no no' Because he's a nerd I didn't think he would do something like that. Turned out the joke was on me. Because after that phone call, about a week later, on facebook, he changed his status as 'in a relationship' I waited two more days and then he tagged the person that he was in a relationship with. I was really upset because even when we were together then, he never changed his relationship status. I hate feeling like Im a fool. He probably thinks he's so kind he doesnt want to hurt me that's why he didn't tell me. But I'm p..... now either way. I hope he'll be with her forever because that girl's not pretty. I can see why he would like her though. She seems really sweet and cute and weak! I'm always too strong for him. emotionally and physically. I don't like him anymore. I don't hate him. I do. But I know once I start working out. I won't think about him anymore. F him. The end.
I hate him because he is a delusional selfish jerk. I hate people who are bad people and think they are not. How can someone who has a drinking problem, gambling problem, and lies all the time tell me he thinks overall hes treated me ok??? wtf. What is wrong with people. How can someone think that just because they spend money, it makes up for lying anytime it benefits him, meaning essentially not caring about me at all and always putting himself first. Im mad at myself for ever being with him and letting it go on for so long because I want to believe that people really want to be good. Well not all of them do and I dont know why. I hate that we were engaged and live together and that he acted like it all mattered to him. I mostly hate him because not only is he a jerk but he doesnt even feel bad about it. He still tells him self that all the flowers he bought make up for the way he treated me and that that is real effort in a relationship. It makes me sick and Ive never felt so disgusted. Have some decency. Lying is not ok. Hurting other people just to do it is not ok, just because it benefits you. Heaven forbid he act like a man and not a child and care about someone when thats what he promises to do. He has the nerve to tell me that he will be ok in a relationship one day and that he will find someone to accept him for the low life he is. Sadly enough that is true but Im definitely not jealous. Anyone can find a doormat to treat like garbage. I was not a doormat and he paid for every wrong thing, but it still went on too long. Hope is not always a good thing. A doormat is his ex who let him act like a jerk and out up with it, no consequence. I said what has to be wrong with you to think its ok to repeatedly get drunk and treat your gf like garbage? To lie anytime you feel like it with no conscience. To never ever care about what I want when it comes to important things. Just because it doesnt matter to you. He says that my next relationship probably wont last a year because I expect everyone to be perfect. Yeah me and my high expectations lol. Dont be a drunk, an addicted gambler, and a liar. The nerve of me huh. He said I shouldnt try to make him feel like he is such a jerk because he is not that bad. can you imagine????? He insinuates silly me for thinking there are so many guys better than him. I said ha, any guy on the street who at least doesnt lie is already better. Not exactly setting the bar high. unreal. How can someone be so delusional about themselves? He does not even resemble a good person. He can fake it now and then but its not him. Yeah basically using someone for 3 years because it was always only about you is perfectly normal. Not to mention being a loser who cant even not have a drink whenhe promises not to. It is enough to make you want to pull your hair out talking to someone who is truly stupid. Not intelligent in the least. I am better than him and I will do something with my life. He will never amount to anything. He may have a career but if you are a bad person thats all that matters. I cant wait to be done with all this. Lesson learned, dont live together before getting married, or at least not if you dont have a steady income to move out right away. Well we get the last laugh ladies. These losers will never have anything real as long as they treat people badly. As they go through their divorces and rocky relationships caused by them, we will find what we are looking for.
I am SO FED UP with ____. He's nothing but a jerk who cares about nobody but himself, and he thinks he has a right to be a stuck up arrogant person so much that he takes everything out on the people who surrounds him. He calls people 'Freaks', Pfft, yeah right. You are only what you call others ____. This kid is crazy and in elementary school people wondered if he was mentally disabled. The worse is this stupid donkeys behind is telling my friend to stop hanging out with me just because he hates me and my voice tone. I HATE THAT JERK!!! HE THINKS HE RULES THE WHOLE GOD DAMN EARTH! Hey _____, just because your Dad is mean like mine doesn't mean you have to be a Jerk.
I hate him. He was 'meant' to be my bestfriend, but i found out all the sweet things he did was only because he liked me. So he asks me out and i say no because i don't want to destroy our 'friendship'. So then everything stops. The calling, the coming over to my house at night, coming over at all and its like I'M the one who has to initiate ANY form of contact or else we'd probably be strangers. So what do i do? I'm the one making the effort while he's always 'conviently' busy. I'm not saying he's a terrible person, because he was there for me when i did need him, but i'm the only one doing ANYTHING. We don't even talk at school. So then i cracked. I told him i was seriously considering ending out one sided 'friendship'. So then HE gets all mad at me for even considering it. Then i think well.. 'maybe he does care.. maybe guys just act like that because well.. they're guys?' So we continue the friendship. Now, when i was on break he called me. Yeah... Internationally. I was pretty impressed... I mean, i wouldn't even have called him.. Then when i get back (late at night.. and there is a school day the following day which i would see him) he wants to come over. So i get thinking, maybe this isnt so bad after all huh?. WRONG. I go to school and everythings the same, maybe we exchange a smile here and there, but no words. So i talk to him on the phone for ages, and i ask him over (for the next day). He says 'yeah, sure' Next day: I'm at home expecting him.. get a call 'So uhh yeah can't make it' Then 2 days later i ask him again 'wanna come over after?' He responds 'Sure' So guess what? 'Ohh uhh i can't...' It p..... me off because i bought him a present from my vacation and wrapped it and everything. It sounds little, but i feel like i've had enough. I'M the one putting all the effort in and we're SUPPOSED to be 'bestfriends' but i mean.. i'm getting nothing in return. So now i've made it pretty clear to him that i'm mad. But he's a guy... so i'm sure it will be over some silly little thing (and i'm not saying it isnt a small thing) but... What should i do? i thought about it.. and well.. 1) Give him what he wants and go out with him, and then MAYBE he'll try a little harder 2) Block him out of my life 3) Stop making the effort in the friendship 4) Keep going, its no big deal... boys are just like that. I don't know, and it's killing me because this has been going on for ages. I'm so glad i can finally vent it here. Apprciated.. Kat.
I've Known my bestest guy friend 4 like 2 years...and his has pissed me off sooo frickin bad.He's been saying really mean things lately and talking s... about me behind my back and i dont ever want to see or speak to him again...
I hate him because he got me expelled. That's all he ever did to me and that's all he needed to do. He knows I didn't do anything and he felt the need to ruin my life because there was nothing else to do. And then after the fact he gunna come up to me and give me a hug. If it hadn't caught me so off guard I don't know what I would have done. Short and sweet, I hate you Chris- for ruining my whole freaking life. screw you >:P
One upon a time there was this boy. This boy was nice, funny and very considerant. But there was also this girl. She was pretty much the same. The girl thought the boy liked her, what else could she think? They were so alike, and they way he looked at her, it couldn't be fake, right? But nothing happened, no one made the first move. So they stopped talking. The boy wasn't ready and the girl was sad. After the summer they met again and this time the boy made the first move, or at least that was what the girl thought. The girl got excited, but was she really gonna go through that again? Although she couldn't help it, the girl was falling for the boy. And fast. They would go together so perfectly, she knew that. Then one time, she was ready and brave enough, and the girl told the boy how she felt. But the boy's feelings wasn't the same as she thought. He wasn't ready this time either. The girl could deal. Or at least at first. But the more time they spent together, as friends, the more the girl realized that the feelings she had would never go away. Not completely. And that wasn't the girl's fault. It was the boy's fault. You see, the girl didn't hate the boy because he didn't love her, the girl hated the boy because he made her think that he loved her. And because of that the girl started to have feelings for the boy. He played her. Because if the girl hadn't thought the boy liked her, she would never had gotten those feeling for him to begin with. And that was why she hated him. Unlike every fairytale this story doesn't end happy. It ends with the girl not understanding the boy, and the boy beeing scared and unable to open up. They're both confused and they're both lonely. The girl knew that the boy is a great guy, he's just not ready. But he will be. They just weren't made for eachother that's all. But hopefully the boy and the girl will find love someday, maybe not with eachother, but with someone. And then the can have that fairytale ending where they live happily ever after.
So hate is a strong word, so I don't know if I can say I hate him but I do hate how he has made me feel. So I was 15 when I met him we started dating when I was 18 we lived together for 2 years and We broke up. Well 2 years later we are back together for another 2 years. And he broke up with me. 2 days later he gets a girls # that he had the hot's for I guess. Now they are sleeping together. So It sux because we are still living together trying to find apt. and what not. But what really hurts me is that I did everything for him and he didn't want to do anything for me. He would say he would do anything for me, but he never wanted to do anything. No dinner no walks no playing in the snow. So I am a descent girl I pay all my bills and take care of myself. He left me for a girl who has nothing...no car no phone she has 2 kids and does not have them either. She is 27 has 5 roommates. Now he says she is a nice and good person with morals but... She strips for extra cash has lots of casual sex. So I see it she has no morals. Basically men sux...and no matter what you do for them its never enough. AHHHH
My ex-love makes me sick I hate him sooo much if he was on fire I wouldn't p... on the flames to put him out. Why? We met in high school and he was in love with me but I was in a relationship that I was happy with. Ever since high we school we haved remained good friends and only friends until in the summer of 2006 he decided to join the Navy. On New Years Eve night 2006 I discovered I feeling for him to and we began to act on those feelings. I'm not one of those girls who loves easily or even thought that would have, but with him it naturally happend I let me guard down along with my pride and let him. And ladies as you know once you let a man in thats when they start acting stupid. He began doing that thing where they're always busy, out with his friends (who are the dumbest people I ever met in my entire life), he's taking a nap. Bull S...! Anyway finally in February 2007 he left to the Navy and we weren't on good terms, he all of a sudden started writing me and saying 'I loved you then but I didn't want to get to far into you because I was leaving and it seemed like you were doing so good with your life and was doing nothing at the time. I had nothing to offer you, I sorry for how I made feel I mean to push you away...blah blah blah ' So by now he's out to sea and slone and mostly horny, and is emailing me talking about how much he loves me and can't wait to see me again. Now it is Christmas and he has returned home. We hooked up for one night and I ain't seen hyde or hair of him since. He played me twice. But I'm not mad at him because he taught me one thing that I will not say I love you to man ever again due to my new philosophy 'You can tell a man I hate and he'll never go away, but if you tell a man I love you never see him again.' So I'm not mad at him, I just HATE HIS F...... GUTS!
He f..... my best friend see. See I put up with his s... for about 5 years and I'm sick of it .I don't need his little d... a.. with those's little shorts and tight shirts he wear.
I hate my ex fiancée with my entire being. We met in the Navy in January 2004. A lot of bad stuff had happened to me and at that point in my life I didn't care what happened to me, so I did what I wanted with no regard for the consequences. From the moment I met him I knew that I wanted him in my life, weather that was just a friend or if it was more, it didn't matter. I got out of the Navy in September 2004 because I was pregnant by a Dominican. The Dominican didn't want anything to do with my daughter... He was already married and on trial for murdering his 5 month old son. So anyway, I had my daughter in November 2004. Ney, (my now ex fiancée) and I had been calling and texting each other since I had gotten out of the Navy. Then in February 2006 he came to Ohio for his first visit. By September he proposed, and I said yes. My family loved him, my daughter called him Daddy, and I thought we were going to be together forever. I got pregnant in January 2007, we bought my grandfather's house in February, and by July he dumped me. I was seven months pregnant. Come to find out, from the time I first told him I was pregnant he had been calling my sister and telling her that he didn't think the baby was his and that I was cheating on him. He came to that conclusion because I am not 'romantic and lovey-dovey', and I didn't want to be toughed and crowded by him because I was pregnant. I have a 2.5 year old that climbs on me as well as being pregnant... I didn't need a grown man pawing me too. So now he calls me and tells me I'm white trash and has the nerve to go on about 'his son, his son' after telling me he thinks I've been cheating on him! All I can say is that ... Those would be both of the father's of my children. But I get my kicks in too... The only way to annoy a Dominican male is to dig into his pockets. Well I'm due to have Ney's baby on September 21, but I've already got the paperwork for a paternity test and child support filled out so I can send it in on the next business day after having the baby. I'm also, at that time, going to do a review on the Dominican's finances and get the child support reviewed. What's sad is that they think it's all about the money. It's really not. I just want each of them to at least take notice once a month that they have another child out here, and they have a responsibility to them. Men..... GRrrrr!
We've been together 5yrs 3mos. We have two daughters and I have one from a previous relationship. I hate him because he's ur typical male a...... In the end everything I thought I knew about him was wrong. From the beginning he's always been about himself (very selfish). He needed to go out, he needed to be alone, he needed to spend quality time with his friends, his family needed him, his job needed him. Everyone and everthing came first I never mattered. He pretty much brushed me off and told me to get my own life like he had his. I told him I loved him early on. I didnt hear that till 1 yr and a half later twoard the end of my first pregnancy. Speaking of first pregnancy, he didnt want me to have her... he kept telling me to go ahead and have an abortion he'd pay for it. he was never there for me. Hed say he was going out of town for work, but I dont believe him. I think he just didnt want to be around me. He once wrote a letter to his brother in prison that i got a hold of first. In the letter he wrote that I was ignorant, childish, a the 'b' word he didnt know why he was with me. He wrote it off to me that he was just upset with me when he wrote it and wasnt gonna send it. I CALL BULL ON THAT! I'm always finding out litle things here and there. But the worst was on the 9th of Sept when my middle daughter accused his brother of touching her down below. He took his side, he called her a liar said he was gonna kick her A.. for lying. We were engaged and on that night he left us. Broke up our family destroyed everything. Over the next couple of weeks instead of trying to fix things. He spent his time hanging out athe bars and hanging with his buds. He text messaged a chic he knows asking her if she wanted to get together. I snooped in his phone I saw all the messages. Hes messed up so much. Hes saying he didnt cheat, he only went out twice, he dint pick his brother over his daughter,DO I LOOK STUPID! I believed in him before. I thought he was a stand up guy,honest trustworthy,honorable,.. he's a fresh piece of hot s...! I hate him so much words can not even describe. It goes so deep. I wish nothing but the worst for him...Payback is a B.... and someday in someway the karma wil get him. Oh and and Juan In case you didnt know you suck, smell, when it comes to sex you'rre a total ZERO. You have no idea what you are doing. I have no Idea why I stayed with you. You made it like I brought nothing to the table...Please I FELT SORRY FOR YOU!
I hate him because i love him so much. We met in the middle of the summer, and it looked like he liked me, well, i was already in love with him. We were all texting each other and one day, I asked him a question while we were taking a walk. Then, he ran into a pole. He was texting someone at the time. I asked him who was it, and he said it was his girlfriend. At first he had owned by heart, but then he completly tore it apart. I hate hium for that.
I hate him cause he didn't change after all those things. I hate him cause he should have left me alone. I hate him cause he knows what he is doing is wrong, hypocrite. i hate him the most because i started to hate himself... i knew he was a jerk and i knew he would keep doing it but i stayed because i am stupid. I hate him so much... cause all he did was hurt me knowing he was hurting me. I hate him cause he made me miserable so many times for no reason. I humiliated myself, lost self-respect, went through things i never should have, lost hope i was miserable and its his fault but i hate me the most cause i let him do it...
I meet my ex in job corps. We were together for 4 months. It was hell all he did was drink olde english 40's.Yes I will say that I smoked my weed but not everyday.One day we said that we would move in together and we did. Then he started to hit me and beat me in my own apartment, Well I had to put a stop to it,so I put him out.Then about a week later he wanted to come back and I let him.BIG mistake.Then we were cool for maybe 1-2 months and then we had it out again and I threw all of beer out .I told him I was sorry for throwing out his beer and throwing the bottle at him because it almost took his eye out .2 days later when I was in the shower he left .U know what hurts the most is that I had him around my child and that is not fair to her and it was not right.Then he lost his job because of the fight that we had.He has not worked for 3 months and all the bills have been getting up to us. I got tried of him just laying around in the apartment and drinking when I am the one that was working and buying him beer and other things.He has made me lost 2 good jobs and I had to steel things for us (me, my daughter and him) and this is not right.When I tell Him about a job that is right around the block he doesn't want to work. Sorry I got tried of the fighting and I PUT HIM OUT BACK TO HIS MOMS.Let him be her slave because he is a mothers boy.But I miss him a lot but I know that I can do better with out him. I tried to call him but he doesn't answer the phone and now I know that I never cared about me or my child. I was stupid then but now I am smarter than that.So now that I want better and he is gone and he is not calling me and I stop calling him, he can stay with his mother and be a mothers boy.Let her buy his beer and wash his clothes and rub is back and take care of him because I am done, But with all the good things that I did for him no other girl will do and I know that I will miss me,BUT ITS ALL GOOD IN THE HOOD.But what is crazy is that I still love him,But all he will be to me is just a booty call and just another dog.what do I do?
I hate that I love him and at times wish I never met him! We've been dating for 4 months but this isn't the first time we've been together, we dated about 3 years ago. He says that when he first seen me 'it was love at first sight' I can't say the same cause he really didn't catch my eye like that. We started talking and things were going good he always wanted to be around me and I wanted for nothing until I felt like I couldn't breath! If I were to fart trust me he would be right there to catch the smell. I told him that I needed a little space he in so many ways he did, but he would still call and text my phone every 5 mins asking the usual jealous boyfriend type questions: where you at, who you with, what are you doin,how long you plan on being out,etc...Finally, I just had enough and that relationship was ended and I went back to the boyfriend I left for him,that didn't last long. So after a year or so went by I seen him and he would always ask me 'can I have my baby back?' I would always tell him no cause of the fact of how our previous relationship went. Eventually I gave in we started back dating and for the first month we were happy we spent almost every other day together we were like a normal couple, until bout 3 months ago he started back with accussing me of being with this guy that guy,being'loose', basically just accusing me everything under the sun. No matter how much I told him that I loved him and only him, it really didn't matter. Then he just out of nowhere stop spending time with me, we hardly ever talked and when we did we would argue. Always I thought to myself I don't need this crap either you want me or you don't. When I asked him why are you with me and everytime I go somewhere you think I'm cheating? I would always get some type of lame excuse for everything. He claimed he had this problem and that problem things 'I wouldn't understand'. It finally got to the point to where I decided if he didn't have time for me or showed me the attention that I deserved I would find it from someone else. When I did it never stopped me from thinking bout him all I could think of is how he made me feel worthless and I wasn't needed. As many relationships I've been in I had never felt so unloved or not wanted,to get his attention was impossible! In my eyes our relationship was over but never stopped me from calling him or him calling me. I loved the man what can I say? The way he makes and made me feel makes me hate him with an undying passion. No one deserves to feel like they dont mean nothing those feelings only make you wanna leave or you just do but I always remember this saying 'ONE MANS TRASH IS ANOTHER MANS TREASURE' And that is so true the man I'm with now treats me like a queen and I don't have to worry bout the bull crap that I had to worry bout with Mr.Insecure. So if you feel like I do then just remmeber there is always someone out there that can treat you a 100 times better than the no good man your with now.
Theres a boy whos goes to my school lets call him the nice guy he walks around likes he the principal of the school. He always picks on me i hate it. One day i was sitting down eating lunch with my friends and he takes ketchup and puts it on my white shirt we get into a fight Im suspended 10 days he's supended 10 days also.My 10 days are up and i wlak in the room and hes in the back kissing on a BOY he didnt see me but i sure saw him.I went back in the room pulled my cell phone out and took a picture, The worst thing happened i forgot to turn off my flash sound and it goes off they jumped up i ran to the boys bathroom and stayed there.I emailed myself te picture printed it out and in just two days the whole school knew that the NICE GUY was a NICE GAY guy.He was expelled and we haven't seem him or his boyfriend since.
I hate my dad. He left me when i was growing up leaving my mom...and now in my growing of age i hate him for it....i Use to visit him in my twenties and when i went over to where he lived he had moved...he haunts me in my mind and i cant Stand it. But i find myself crying over him wishing that he was around. The moment i that that we were getting close and I was getting to know about him and my mother. Who had past away. He decides to leave....i hate him. Karen
I don't hate him... I hate myself for loving him... And I hate him for torturing me the way he did and still does. We met in September 2006 and I fell in love with him straight away, which has never happened before in my whole not so very short life. He fell in love with me too and if I knew that it would all turn out this way, I still think I'd be with him. The only happy month of our 11 moths relationship was the first one... after that things started to change as I started noticing that he doesn't care about how I feel. He never asked how I was feeling or what I think about different matters. We talked about it and it seemed as though he understood what he did wrong. But this was nothing in comparison to what was about to come. So we had our first departure from each other as I went home to Germany for a week. He was extemely jealous as he knew that my ex lived there too... All the words I said about how I love only him and that my ex is in the PAST were in vain... When I came back it started... he began to search through my phone at least 3 times a day, he found the number of my ex and called him. The worse thing is that my ex really hated me and so he told my love that we were still together... of course, HE didn't believe me at all after hearing such things from my ex... He started screaming at me and telling me that I cheat on him all the time, that he can't trust me anymore. That didnt stop him from having sex with me though.. I guess he was addicted to me in that way... We sorted it out in 3 month. But these moths were the worst in my life as I experiences complete humiliation and depression... I wasn't guilty at all, but he made me think I was and made me apologize for things, which never happened. I just wanted for us to be together, so I gave in and did what he expected... So afterall we were still together. We were fighting a lot, but when we weren't, it was the best time of my life and best sex in my life. well, he always tried to mention what I 'did' when we were fighting, pointing out that I'm at fault for all our fights... he started lying to me and even though it were small lies - they were lies. He never admitted that the fights were also - and mostly - his fault... fault of his selfishness and his ego... he never apologized for anything. now... we each spend our summer vacations with our families, we're in different countries and I cant come to him, because my grandmother has cancer and he knows this.. so a day after he wrote me that he loves me really much and that we'll be together always, he disappears... for 10 days... he never answered any of my sms or calls... and yesterday he wrote that its over. That he's tired of this love, that he cant cope with the distance, that he loves me but I'm at fault, because I 'did' those things and because of my attitude, because I'm BAD... I tried talking to him. No point... he left... he left me with my pain, with my broken love and with my lost nerves. So I just want to hate him. BUT I CAN'T... I love him. I want to forget that he ever existed in my life... but I can't... I need help..
I met my husband in college. Freshman year, he appeared to be a perfect match, a hippy boy with dread locks. Turned out it was a perfect match because he was actually a right winged republican and we always had something to talk about, since we usually disagreed. But our passion and love for each other kept us together for so long. We are going on 5 years, 2 of which, are married. But I'm angry at him all the time. I started drinking again, hoping maybe we'd bond, but i just cheat on him, and can't look at him the same. He patronizes me all the time, well we can't go to a concert because its a 'work night'. What? We have a family, we have good jobs, but I love taking risks, and staying out late every once in awhile. I cheat because I know its temporary and not someone telling me what to do, instead of being the 'logical person in the relationship.' He wonders why I say I'm stupid. And maybe I placed him in the position to 'take care of me.' Well, how do I get him to work with and not above me. I hate the way he his, and I hate who I've become. I just to be happy again.
We were friends for a long time before we started going out. He was my best friend. i told him that i didn't want to be with anyone, that i didn't want to be in another relationship. He left it alone for awhile. Then i fell in love.On new years eve he took me out and he told me that he loved me, i was speechless. then he asked me again and i said yes. He was a great boyfriend we talked all the time about everything, i never kept anything from him. He never asked me for anything he said the only thing he wanted was my time. On valentines day he called me at 12 o'clock and wrote me 2 poems and i KNEW he was the one we made so many plans. Everything was perfect but my friends hated him. Eventually after my best friend and boyfriend had a fight (I don't even know what it was about some immature disagreement on myspace) the person that was suppose to be my best friend made me chose between him and her and it goes without saying that i chose him. Then he stopped calling me. He said he was stressed out over his court date that was coming up soon so i left it alone. Then I started hearing from him less and less, I was so depressed i cried all the time. I was so angry at myself for caring as much as I did. Then it got to the point that i was the only one making phone calls, so one day I called him during the day he said he had something important to talk to me about and that he'd call me at 7. I waited and got no phone call so i deleted his number from my phone and tried to forget about him. Then finally got a phone call 4 days later. Talking about how he was in jail and how i was the first person that he called when he got out and that i didn't appreciate him and he told me he would call me back and didn't. I couldn't accept that it was over so i called him and tried to explain that i didn't mean to hurt him that i loved him and he told me not to say that i loved him. A month later i got an text saying that he was sorry and hoped that i found some one better. What an a...... i will never go out with a gang member again i am so stupid. I hate him because Im still in love with him and that Im crying while Im writing this. And i hate him because he probably has a new girlfriend and Im still alone
I hate him because he doesn't return my calls or messages and he never initiates them but when i see him he acts like i'm everything, Like i'm special. He promises he's gonna call and txt and not let me go but then it doesn't materialize and i'm left feeling stupid. I don't want to draw that line because when he's with me he's so different and he makes me feel special and i believe him, its just when he's somewhere else i don't exist and i can't bear it!! I hate him for being so selfish and making me feel so pathetic.
You. You. You .... People. All of you. I hate you all, you come and rant like big, shiny, oily, fat babies bla bla bla i hate him, i hate her, what the .... Man!??? Get a .... Life!! Get a .... Job!! Get a .... .... .... .... Spellcheck, man!! If you wanna hate someone and tell someone about it, have the .... Decency to spell it .... Right!!! I hate you all!!! You good for nothing crybabies!!! This is life and its hard!!! Suck it up and move on!! You .... .... ....!!!
>You are such a pathetic hypocrite don't you think? If someone has a problem with another person and feels like going onto a website and venting their emotions then you should just leave them alone, not go on and act like a jerk. I hear that only people who have a limited vocabulary curse, in this case that is definitely accurate. Life's not fair, so others aren't allowed to express their feelings? You curse and complain about people getting together and relieving their pain by talking about it? Don't insult people for choosing this way to vent, it's much better than anything illegal and they have a right to go online and say it. If you don't like the color green are you going to go around and yell at everyone wearing it? Just leave these people alone!! Did you not think that reading about others experiences might help others? Perhaps even heal them? Take one of the writers, her child was molested!!! Does that make her a whining oily baby for being mad and upset? YOU'RE the pathetic one...
At University, right after i just turned 20 I went to this party absolutely trashed. I turned around to find my 25 year old TA trying to hit on me in Italian. At that time I thought he was sweet and mature but now I know he knew exactly what he was up to- I was just another conquest. I had my doubts about it and thought it was funny and danced the rest of the night away ( not with him). I got back to my dorm and on my computer there was an email from him saying he did not know his student was such a 'vivacious dancer.' I was drunk and stupidly wrote him back. This started a string of emails that lasted for a month, and culminated in a date. After a couple dates we were officially boyfriend and girlfriend ( although he jumped the guns w/ that title, i wanted to be unofficial just a little while longer). So for the first four months it was good. Expensive dinners, intellectual conversations, conversations about God- which made me feel great about him because I thought he was religious. We had to sneak around my classmates and that made it exciting, but i also felt uneasy and yearned for the day that we would be able to hold hands down campus walk and not be afraid of administration. Things started to happen gradually. I trusted him, so naturally if he went out with his european female friends to bars i did not question anything. He always made fun of unfaithful men, he also told me how he thought his friends were unattractive. He told me he'd love me forever and that he was planning his future with me. A certian blonde german woman made me uneasy because she was the only one of his friends that hated me for some unexplainable reason. And everytime i confronted him about it he told me that 'i was too nice' and that ' people find it fake' and that ' i can't get along with everyone.' I then rebuttled with, 'then how come i can get along with EVERYONE ELSE exept her??' One saturday morning I called his room phone- which rang- but no one picked up. It was 8:50am. He never gets up until 10 on the weekends. I called and called, and even walked outside his room and called to hear the phone ringing. He materialized around 11:30 claming he went to get coffee, but the coffee place doesn't open until early afternoon. I remember of feeling my heart drop to my stomach- i believe i was too much in shock to register what i already knew- he spent his night somewhere else. he started to pick fights with me more. He would be hot- cold- very critical of others. critical of me. I had to be perfect. the perfect scholar. wearing makeup. sweet. innocent. He would not take my vir.ginity. And at last, the day came when fall semester ended, and i could transfer to the other professor's class. I came to an end of the semester party he was at with his other european friends and told him how great it was now that we wouldnt' have to hide anymore! I will never forget that look on his face- like he was trying to be happy, but also very uneasy about something. And in the corner of my eye I saw him constantly chatting with the blonde german TA while i was left in the care of his other two friends. During the last party of the year he poured a beer over a girl who made me mad, after i specifically told him to leave it alone, that it wasn't that big of a deal. then he had to ditch the party before other people found out. I had to follow him- but i was too freaked out to spend the last night on campus with him. He was a different person. I asked him if he has another violent side to him that he hasnt shown me yet. He said no, that he has always been the same and that he will do anything to stay with me. I told him if he ever turned violent on me like he did with that girl, i would walk away and never look back. We stayed togehter over the summer and I even met his family ( who adored me btw, which caused even more hostility from him). the next year he lived in a different dorm and two girls signed up to live a room away from him in order to get italian help whenever they desired. It was an academic program the school orchestrated. One girl was always sweet. the other always hated me. She was always cold- and i did not understand why. Again i got the same explanation- ' you're too nice, it's fake, she can see right through you.' But the thing is i wasnt' being fake, i wanted to get to know her so she wouldn't be sketchy to me anymore. Because it came to be that everytime i called him he would talk about her, or she was at his doorway asking for help, or she was sending him an instant message on AIM. I got p..... when she watned to give him a ride to the airport when i had exams- and he turned it around saying i didn't care enough to give him a ride putting my exams in 1st priority. I told him that he could carpool with the other italian professor to the airport just 2 hours earlier than when she or i could drive him, but still he was insistent that he go with her. I blew up at him saying that fine, if he wants her so bad he can have her. I should have left it there. But i was dumb and called back and offered to take him to the airport just so i can send her the message that she can't try to steal him and that i'm watching. the spring semseter of that year sets in- it has now been a year and some months. Things are pretty routine. or lets say, very routine. He promised me he would not be in the same room with her or hang out alone w/ her again. I found out about some times when he watched movies w/ her alone and she cried to him afterward how she didnt' have friends- i told him to back away from her because she was just luring him w/ her emotional bait...he didn't get it. but now i'm sure he did, and just enjoyed it. He wanted to feel like he could be a hero. And that semester i was coming into my own. I didn't need his help with my homework or my essays- i was serious about what i wanted to do in life. I had direction. and i had confidence. He tried to make me a part of his future and take me back to his country, but i still wanted to keep my options open and apply to graduate schools in the states. He wanted to follow me to whatever school i went in that case. I felt like i was never going to do anything on my own. She was dependent and needed someone to lean on. she was dying ot have a boyfriend ( she said this on numerious occasions when we all hung out... yeah, she knew me well) while i was actually itching to have more space from him. I loved him and loved being with him, and i thought he would understand what was important to me in my life. both him and school. But on those nights when i was in my dorm writing essays, finishing latin or greek, she would be cuddling up with him. on those nights i decided to hang out with someone else for a change, she would make out with him in his bed, steal kisses from him throughout the day, ask him constantly for help with her homework. She NEEDED him. she watned to be better than me so badly, she wanted to feel self worth and be the valued 'other woman.' While i was on my period and did not feel like being physically close to him, she was there for him to screw. And while he was screwing her, he would insist that i remain a virgin until he and i got married. One day it call came down. friends told me. i called im and couldn't believe it when he said ' forgive me.' he tried for 4 days to get me back then apologize, then ever since he has been angry with me because i am not dumb enough to take him back. Oh yeah, about the german TA. they had sex too. He had stalked me for four months unitl i finally put a stop to it by being able to track his ip address- he had been stalking my online diary even though i blocked all non- users. that didn't stop him, he made an account to continue. I blocked his account and sent him one final message- point blank, that if he continues one more minute i will tell his new girlfriend ( yup, you guessed it, that slut he lived with) all that he has done to stalk me while he was with her. He had now deleted his account and disappeared off my plane of existence. It feels good. damn good. and i hated him for a while. but now i just feel sorry for him. He didn't realize what a great catch i was until he trashed me for some excitement and sex. and once that thrill was over, he realized that fidelity and love were really great things after all. But i'm too good for him, and i'm glad i've moved on. I just needed to vent this whole story out- as I just got him to stop stalking me about 3 days ago- i need to celebrate this victory over him, and i want to celebrate the acquisition of my self-trust, respect, and love. peace love and happiness to you all.
I hate him because i love him so much. we love each other when we was 16. I love him with all my love he have allot of problem i accept him i tried for him he told me when he got stable he's got in position I'm the stupid woman at that time i was 35 u guys can think abt it how was i stupid i spend more than 15 years for him
>go and get your GED you stupid f...!!
I hate him because he played with my heart and my feelings. One day, he would tell me that he loved me, that I was beautiful and the other day just ignore me. I always loved him, my feelings were true but he only loved me from time to time or maybe he never loved me and just played with me... I decided to stop this weird relationship as I still loved him, I suffered a lot... And now, I hate him so much.
omg i really hate thiss guy named tony i mean he was my first lovee!!we dated 4 about 8 months then outta no were he moves to minnesota i mean WTF he didnt even say bye!!!and we talk on myspace so he tels me how much ive changed and that he wants to get back 2gether if he comes back then i find out he was goin bak out with his minnesota g/f amanda when he said that!!!y r guys like that!
I hate him. I met him and there was an immediate connection. We spent every day together. We talked about everything. I thought that I meant something to him, as he definitely meant something to me. Of recent he's found newer and better things to occupy his time and I rarely see him. I feel used. I thought there was something between us. I came to live in this god-aweful city because of him. I'm not typically the type of person who lets other people rule my decisions. I let down my guard this once, thinking that I had found something special. All that I found was an opportunistic, self-serving charmer. I hate him for having the power to make me feel the way I currently do. I hate him for not even allowing me to feel the bitter, fire-breathing, passionate, (bordering on hatred) and sometimes even fun anger; instead, I don't even have it in me to truly hate him. All I can do is feel utterly sad and alone...constantly wishing that he were here with me. I wish I had never met him.
I had been seeing this guy for a little over a year. I'm 23 and he's 26. I'm a Virgo and he's a Gemini (yes I know I should have stayed away). I hate him because he wasted so much of my time. We were happy last summer. Around Christmas we broke up, but we were still talking. I told him I didn't want to be his friend, I wanted more and that I wouldn't continue seeing him after new years. So we got back together because 'he didn't want to lose me'. I was happy we planned to move together and move forward. Then came the petty arguments the wishy-washy feeling about little(and some big) things. But that was the Gemini I thought. He wanted to change me and I wanted to change him. We broke up again. Well because I loved him, I continued to go places with him. You know the movies, dinner, the park and family function. I was the girlfriend without the title. We were even still sleeping together. I hate him because even though I played the girl friend, he constantly reminded me I wasn't his girl friend. He didn't kiss me, hug me, hold me nothing. Just hang with me every weekend and f... me. I really can't be made at him,I can only be made at myself. It's not like I'm ugly or stupid. Why would I put up with this any longer (I stopped calling him last week)? I hate him because he said he loved me. If he did way doesn't he act like it. I hate Gemini's !!!
I hate him because I went out with him for 4 yrs he dumped me...he wanted me so badly when I was with my ex boyfriend before him and finally my heart switched over to him when my ex moved to a different state. We had a great connection in the beginning and after about 3 1/2 years he started doing drugs...a few months ago he got arrested and spent the night in jail for possession. He went to detox in a hospital for 1 week and then to rehab upstate for a whole month!! I hate him b/c I was there for him through the bad and badder times. I stuck by him and he told me when I visited him in rehab that he couldn't wait to see me and be the best boyfriend to me, treat me like gold and buy me everything blah blah blah..,when he got home i spent almost 400 dollars on a hotel room, bought him whatever he wanted and drowned him with love. Then he broke my heart. He said he felt different after comin home from rehab that he 'didn't want a relationship'..I'm just so mad that I wasted all my energy on someone who didn't love me like I thought...I guess I am just shocked at the fact that I was completely blindsited...and for that I HATE HIM!!!
So ok, I knew this jerk since i was 16 years old. Met him on my 16th birthday in fact. We were best friends thru our whole lives. Stood by each other thru life. He married someone else and had a baby die with her. I was there. She screwed his whole unit, i was there for him. I married someone else, HE was there for me. He divorced, I divorced, WE were there for each other. He went to prison, I was there. He got me to trust him, love him believe him. We were together for four years before we got married. I quit my job to move where his family was. Spent my savings to set up our apartment. We got married and not even a year later he tells me 'ITS NOT WORKING OUT'. What the hell is that? He dumped me at my mothers house with one suitcase of my belongs, with the pretense of 'we need a break'. Yeah bull s... ! He should have said i want to screw other women! He kept all of my possessions, including my underwear. Told me that he kept it all in the garage and the rains collapsed the roof. Again bull! How stupid does he think i am, that hes gonna say he put a brand new 27' tv in a garage! I hate him for lying, i hate him for getting me to trust him. I hate him for using me until he had no use for me any more. I hate him for ruining every good memory of him i had and MOST OF ALL I HATE RUSSELL FOR BEING A F'IN MOMMAS BOY.
I hate him so much, he was my friend but he went and flirted with my girlfriend and told her to dump me or just dump me for one day so he could f... her and then she could go back out with me, so my g/f stopped hanging out with him since i guess they were best friends but since they lived close to each other they stopped and said hey once in a wile then started hanging out all the time and he would touch her and flirt with her she wouldn't do anything since it was her friend and she knew he was joking so i dumped her then we got back together then she dumped me and dated him for one day i guess they didn't do anything and now we are dating but yeah now my best is flirting with me and she likes me too and i don't want to anything that will get her upset so my go/f is just going to have to put up with it like i did
I was stupid enough to get involved with him - he was involved with someone else - okay MARRIED - but I was vulnerable and weak and I believed every lie...and I was stupid enough to believe it for longer than I care to admit. I was a very independent person, but I became living proof that love is blind and bent to every whim and took his s... - even when it was his fault. I was not allowed to have an opinion of my own, but kept hanging in on the hope that one day it would all work out. This was a man who did not sexually satisfy me and yet I was STUPID enough to fake it and hang in when I should have said get your tiny dick out of here. Then, when the bastard decided to move out on his own when he got a new job, he needed space because my life was a rollercoaster - gee, when your parents were sick and passing away I hung in there and was supportive, but NO, you needed to focus on yourself. Well, go ahead you bastard, focus on yourself, find another b.... who treats you like s... because you only want someone who treats you badly. You poor pathetic tiny dicked man. Criticize if you will - I was an idiot.
i hate him so much! he went around calling me a slut and the only reason i was going out with his brother was for his cd and sex. he got made cause i turned him down. so when his brother had to move away he started going around saying we had had sex and it got back to his step-mom and so she called me i told her im still a virgin and proud of it and if i have to ill go get checked well she talked to my mom and my mom said we had to break up break up because she was tied of people telling her about stuff he had said so i hate him he had my boyfriend taken away from me and i hope i dont see him ever again not even when school starts back. i hate him and im going to tell him that to his face he needs to get over himself after all he does have a girlfriend
I don't understand him. me and james have been together nearly 2 and a half years and have been friends for about 5. like every relationship we've had our ups and downs, but the last few weeks are making me question everything even his love for me, which has never even crossed my mind befoe. it all started when my mates boyfriend started saying that when they went out together james had left him and gone off to a club with some girl. i dismissed his comments as lies as he was constantly trying to come between me and my best mate, his girlfriend. hoping i'd believe james and so causing my mate to be angry with me for accussing her boyfriend of lying. anyway we sorted that out as far as i was concerned. then a week later me and james had a big row and i got really hurt coz he was just acting like a little kid who couldn't get his own way. we managed to resolve things the night after with lots of tears and him saying he was sorry and promised to change, (as always). then the night after this reconciliation he i went to his place and he says he has to pop out to sell his motorbikr and would be an hour. after 3 hours i ring him and he's out with his mates at the pub. i was so hurt andangry after the other going ons the days before, i asked him to come back right away and hung up. he comes in at 3am!! does he even care about me?! we have a huge row the next day and i seriously don't trust him now. i mean how could he do that after everything i'm starting to think maybe my mates boyfriend wasn't lying. then to top it off he goes out again and comes home drunk at 5am. he says he loves me and cares about me but if thats the case how can he hurt me like this. i don't know what to do i know i should leave i've given him so many chances and he always blows them, but i'm just not strong enough coz i really am in love with him. i feel like such an idiot for believing what he says, i think i'm just doing it coz i'm scared i'll never find anyone else who cares about me as much as he does, or says he does. i just am so confused i keep crying, i hate him for doing this to me i would never hurt him like this i just don't understand how he can say he loves me and cares for me and cries when i said i think it might be over but treat me like this. i've given up so much for us and he's still acting like an idiot saying i didn't mean to hurt you, but how could he not have ment it i mean he knew by going out with his mates and lying to me i'd be hurt after all he said the day before so why did he do it? i really don't get it i'm so angry and upset, i hate him, i just wish i knew whwts going on in his head!!!
first off...it was on myspace. I didn`t know he existed until he added me. he was one of my best friend's friend do why not accept him. I started to talk to him and eventually he asked me out. first, I asked for his name and how tall and how old he was. before he asked me out he had been saying that he LOVED me. that is bullcrap because he had been saying the same thing to another girl. he asked her out as well and she said yes so they were going out. but he was still telling me that he loved me. I called him out and told him it was wrong what he was doing. so then not even a week passed and he broke up with her. so he asked me out and I said yea. we have been going out for 2 or 3 weeks. then what did I find out? he was going out with this other chick and he flirting with the first girl! so I broke up with him and we were not meant to be.
I hate him. I hate him because he made me love him. I hate him for writing me poetry. I hate him for proposing. I hate him for being my high school sweet heart. I hate him because I've loved him since I was 16. I hate him because he was my first everything. I hate him because he told me he loved me. I hate him because he left without warning. I hate him because he wasn't who he'd portrayed himself to be. I hate him because he lied all these years. I hate him because I truly WASN'T his first ANYTHING. I hate that he cheated on me the WHOLE time w/ over 12 girls...4 were my 'friends' I hate him because I was the last to know. I hate that he bragged about everything we did to his friends. I hate him because he was my best friend. I hate him because he turned me against my friends and family. I hate him because he secretly went to another girls prom with her the week after he took me to his. I hate that he cried with me everytime I explained how much he was hurting me. I hate that he always promised to change. I hate him because I still love him. I hate him because he tells all of his girlfriend's that he loves him. I hate him because I underestimated how clever and sneaky he was. I hate him.